I am the type of person that is generally able to handle all the things that are thrown my way. It takes a lot to trip me up from my daily routine and when I am feeling that I can barely keep my head above water I usually put on a good show so it appears that I am still in control. However, the past few weeks have thrown a few a kinks my way and it is starting to take a toll on me. I have been a little less productive and feel as though I am falling behind on a lot things that I usually stay on top of. It has been hard but I try my best to keep trudging along.
Today I was asked to switch up carpools and do a little extra babysitting. Of course I said “yes” as I almost always do if my schedule permits. I was happy to help where I could but was feeling a little overwhelmed with all that I had to do today. As I was showering, in preparation for my busy day, I got a knock on my door and there was my dear friend. She had arranged to pick up all my kids and the kids I was planning to babysit and take them to the park. She made lunches for all of them and dropped them off to preschool and kindergarten as well. I was resistant to let her do this, but I let it happen (which is hard for me to do). As they left, I sat on the couch and had a good cry. I needed that.
I then realized how grateful I am for good friends. What would we do without them? They know when you need a little extra help, a warm plate of cookies, or just a short break to pull yourself together. That’s the thing about good friends…they just know. I love them!
MightyJohnsons 
Oooh…Mani, now your Dad is on the couch with a tear in his eye, too. I know how you are and I know what you mean. You, even as a little girl, have always been the first up, the first to volunteer, the first to start, the first to finish and the last to say “no.”
However, in the midst of all you do for others you are so incredibly fortunate to have a friend who recognizes and feels your needs, even as you may overlook them yourself. The eloquent words above show your recognition of the occassional need to say, “mum” if not “no.” And, you don’t need to make excuses. As you can see, your true friends recognize your need to rest–with five children under the age of eight you are clearly a busy little-big girl.
Cherish your “special” friend and give a moment of silent contemplation to the small nudge she has given you. You are both very SPECIAL in my heart. I love you…. Dad
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